This is just bad and see through. And wtf on the “romance not romance”-part. Men do NOT give female employees clothes, jewelry or flowers as a thank you in a professional capacity. They give money - a bonus- to an employee. Nor do men behave like the Nelson- character. If a man is unsure, he backs off. If he’s decided, he goes forth. This “maby some day”-shit is a woman’s wish-washy-overthinking. The whole thing is just… icky.